A wise woman once told me: You don’t lose your virginity when you have sex. You don’t “lose” anything. You gain an experience and you have your sexual debut.

thedesperatescousewife:

I feel like this can apply to anyone. Whether you’re saving your first time for marriage or you’re simply waiting til it’s right for you and your parter I don’t think sex means loss. I think the concept of “losing” a piece of you is harmful to peoples’ minds. Like you’re less of a person because of having sex? Anyways, sexual debut is kind of an awesome term.